Monday, February 27, 2012

Commence Wedding Nightmares

Okay, nightmare might be a little strong of a word, but I'm a bride, cut me a little slack, mmkay?

I don't dream. When I'm taking anti-depressants, I remember MORE of my dreams, likely because I'm more relaxed & sleep better, but for all intents and purposes, I live under the idea that I have too much anxiety & sleep too poorly to really dream much. My dad doesn't dream either, so it's genetic...yeah, that's it...

Well last night, I had a dream about our wedding bands. Saturday, we spent what seemed like hours, but was probably only one, at Jared's working with the lovely Sharon--the customization specialist who did our engagement rings--to design our bands.


All I can say is that it's contoured, had no gem stones and  has more than 1 color of gold

I'm sure you have an idea of what my dream was about right? They came back wrong. Rather significantly wrong at that, and as I think about it, I "notice" even more wrong with what came back than I had in the dream itself!! Now, I trust Sharon completely--I never even looked at the wax when I was ordering Ellie's ring because it was a hassle to get to Plymouth & she had spent so much time working on the original that I felt secure in her judgement. The fact that they needed to take my engagement ring to ensure the proper contour didn't even come up in this dream--apparently I only notice that when awake, and another ring Ellie got me is an okay temporary replacement.

Is this what a wedding does to a girl? Am I going to go more crazy the closer we get? Dear gods I hope not.

1 comment:

  1. I had so much stress when we were planning our wedding i accidentally lost like 20 lbs (which i promptly gained back afterwards lol). Things will go wrong. I promise you that. For instance, our wedding started almost an hour late due to the mom of my flower girls. And I was a complete control freak. Just remember to delegate and thoroughly enjoy the day when it gets here. You are marrying the woman of your dreams and starting the rest of your lives together. It will be amazing!

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